The difference of genders

well, i finally realised the big difference between genders. here r some of my comparisons.

Guys:
Really don't have initiative
Reckless(charge in to ideas without thinking)
Really likes his pride
lazy
decisive(sometimes)
Doesn't plan for the long term future
Perverted
likes to rub salt into the wound
Better cooks<-- come on, have u ever been to a restaurant with a female chef, its near nil.

Girls:
mysterious
emotional
likes to be in control
persistent
seems to have lots of endurance<--a trip to the shopping mall is hell for guys not on dates
likes to daydream(not all girls)
ambitious
better planners
great listeners n talkers; especially talkers(doesnot refer to all as well)
sensitive

er.... sorry to the gals, i dun really have much information bout u gals.

some people asked me before that if u like a person there must be some qualities in her/him that u like. 2 years ago, my first thought was that if u liked a person, u just like her/him, no apparent reason. my perception 1 year later, that the person must have vast knowledge, acceptable facial features, good character. Now i guess its just a person that i enjoy spending time with n feel comfortable around her, for the person to be herself cos i came up with a theory. If u love or like a person, love him/her for what he is, not what he is not. changing him/her entirely would make him/her a different person. U may disagree, but i really feel so. for this special person, u would be able to sacrifice anything for him/her happiness cos if that person's happy, u r happy. however, i find ppl so shallow these days. like the girl from the temasek short films:" ppl look only on the surface but never look deeper". I believe that in everyone's heart, even in the darkest heart, there is a gem waiting to be uncovered. once uncovered, this gem will slowly uncover the other gems in other ppl. these gems r called 'kindness'. yah,yah....... probably think this is cheesy but in actual fact.......it is........its bcos i ran out of things to write about......so this is a whole page of bullshit.......ARHHH......i'll stop typing........